Words of Affirmation | Acts of Service | Receiving Gifts | Quality Time | Physical Touch
Words of Affirmation
Words need to be used to affirm love
Example: verbal compliments, written letters, cards
Act of Service
Actions speak louder than words
Example: cooking, cleaning, doing the laundry
Receiving Gifts
Getting a small gift as a token of love and appreciation
Example: flowers, jewelry, favorite drink/candy
Quality Time
Giving your undivided attention
Example: no cell phones, no television, maybe even no children (if you have children)
Physical Touch
Nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch
Example: holding hands, cuddling, kissing, hugging
Dr. Gary Chapman has created a new way of thinking about love. He has: a book, a website, and a podcast explaining how you prefer to be loved and how your partner prefers to be loved based on your personalities. If you have not already, then take The 5 Love Languages Quiz to confirm which of the 5 you are. Understanding your love language will take your relationship to the next level!
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