Desire is based on your mental experience and is your individual responsibility
Did You Know?
You are responsible to turn yourself on. You are responsible to know what you like and what feels good to you.
*Everything is learned behavior. What one perceives as sexual stimuli may be different for another person*
“How you do things in life is how you do things sexually.”
Dr. Shannon Chavez
When dissecting problems dealing with sex, begin by looking at the relationship in its entirety. The dynamics, communication, how you get your needs met, how you practice intimacy, etc.
*Sex requires giving and receiving, negotiation, and compromising!*
Tips
- Who is initiating? Both people need to take turns on initiating!
- Think about other parts of your body to incorporate
- Don’t forget about touching, kissing, and other actions of intimacy
Love 101 