Ways to Score Points with a Woman

A man thinks he scores high with a woman when he does something very big for her like buying her something expensive or taking her on a vacation. He assumes he scores less when he does something small like opening car doors, buying her flowers, or giving her hugs and kisses. This formula, however, does not work because women keep score a bit differently. A man does not realize that to a woman the little things are just as important as the big things. Below are list of ways to score points with a woman.

1. After returning home find her first before doing anything else and give her a hug or kiss.
2. Ask her specific questions about her day that indicate an awareness of what she planned to do.
3. Resist the temptation to solve her problems…empathize instead.
4. Give her 20-30 minutes of unsolicited, quality attention.
5. Actually plan a date instead of asking her what she wants to do.
6. Compliment her on how she looks.
7. Validate her feelings when she is upset.
8. Offer to help out when she is tired.
9. When you are going to be late, call and let her know.
10. When she asks for support just say yes or no without making her wrong for asking.
11. Give 4 hugs a day.
12. Call her from work to ask how she is doing or share something exciting or to simply tell her “I love you.”
13. Tell her “I love you” at least two times a day.
14. Notice when the trash is full and take it out without her asking you to.
15. Wash your car and clean the interior before a date with her.
16. Offer to give her a back, neck or foot massage (or all three).
17. Make a point of cuddling or being affectionate without being sexual.
18. Be patient when she is sharing.
19. Display affection in public.
20. Create occasions when you both can dress up and go out.
21. Pay more attention to her than to others.
22. Take pictures of her.
23. Take short romantic getaways.
24. Write her a note from time to time.
25. Offer to drive when taking trips.
26. Treat her in ways you did at the beginning of the relationship.
27. Open the door for her.
28. Offer to carry her bags.
29. Make eye contact with her.
30. Get ready to go to sleep together and get in bed at the same time.
31. Give her a kiss when you are leaving and before you fall asleep.
32. Verbally say thank you.
33. Let her know that you missed her if you have been away from each other.
34. Ask her for her opinion on things.
35. Bring her something you know she likes (candy, flowers, etc.)

Those are just a few ways to make a woman smile and show her that you care. She will definitely feel loved and cherished and you will without a doubt gain some points. *Side note: only five out of the thirty-five things listed require money being spent. Women often times just want to be in your presence. They want to spend quality time together. They could not care less about what you buy and how much money you have spent on them. Although gifts are always welcomed 😊