Sorry But I Had To…

On my Tory Lanez vibes right now because I know I’m about to step on some toes, but sorry I have to!

So, can we discuss why we have normalized cheating? Why do we accept our partner to step out on the relationship and cheat with someone else? Is it because you don’t respect yourself? Is it because you do not know your worth? Is it because that is all you know? I am really trying to understand! This baffles me! Then, once the act of cheating is over, the person who cheated is not even the one who is bashed. The person they cheated with is the target. Why?

Let me tell you something! If someone cheats on you, they are not in love you. If someone cheats on you, they do not respect you. If someone cheats on you, then that should be all it takes to leave that person. Actions speak louder than words. Your self love and self respect should be worth more than anything they buy you as an “I’m sorry but I will do it again” present. Because, baby, they will do it again! I haven’t seen a time where the person only cheated once. I’m just saying.

No man, no woman, no person at all should tolerate cheating. That is the biggest sign that the relationship you share is not valued. I am here to tell you that you deserve more. You deserve better!

Let’s stop normalizing toxicity! Cheating, abuse, neglect, gaslighting, controlling behaviors, etc. is NOT okay!

That is all 🙂 Have a blessed day!