Author Jon Birger was curious to find the answer to this question and completed some research. Below is a summary of his findings.
There is a gender ratio. Mr. Birger did numbers of males vs. females on different college campuses, but wherever you may be located, just think about the gender ratio. There is, typically, more women than there are men and if this is the case, then it effects a man’s mentality without them even realizing it. This causes a man to get the “big head” and believe women are disposable because there are so many to choose from.
Advice from Jon Birger
- Date younger men. Younger men tend to be less jaded and effected. They are into older women due to them already being successful, which takes away the stress of them having to be the breadwinner in the relationship. (Fact: Couples, typically, have up to a 5-6 year age gap.)
- Be openminded. Steer away from the mentality of needing a man who brings in 6 figures. Consider dating someone who chose the “trade path” instead of the “college degree path”. You will be surprised how much money a man can make from a trade such as truck driving, plumbing, welding, etc. (Fact: More women date lesser educated men than men dating lesser educated women.)
- Deeper connections. Look for a deeper connection than just physical. Try to connect on all the other levels before you even hookup. Think about long-term and a lifetime partner.
Jon Birger’s book Make Your Move gives you more information on how women can beat the odds and discusses the statistics he has found on dating.
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