Don’t Tell. Don’t Compare.

Usually, I pull information from books, blogs, podcasts, etc. to create a blog for you all. Today, this blog was inspired by social media posts.

I have been noticing different people on various social media platforms ask about other’s relationships or willingly give information about their relationship seeking validation or advice. I am going to say two things:

1. If it is not broke, then do not fix it.
2. Each individual is different.

Now, I say those two points to say this…

1. Based on observations, some people try to find the smallest things to make an issue and start a fight about. Toxicity has become so habitual in our generation that is seems outlandish when everything is going well in the relationship, so you are looking for something wrong. If it is not broke, don’t fix it.
2. Because each individual is different, each relationship is different. What works for one relationship, may not work for your relationship and vice versa. Find out what works best for you and your partner! Stop comparing yourself and your partnership to others.

I titled this blog “Don’t Tell. Don’t Compare.” due to the simple fact that not everyone has your best intentions at heart. Do not go tell every little detail of what is happening in your life (relationship or not) because everyone does not wish happiness and success over your life. Also, stop comparing yourself to others because whatever it is…that blessing was intended for them and not you. That person was intended for them and not you. “What God has for me, it is for me” is a quote I live by. Focus on you and yours!

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