Code Switching

The practice of alternating between two or more languages or varieties of language in conversation.

Google Dictionary

If you have not watched the Netflix series “Sex Life”, then please do so! There are so many deep messages hidden in the storyline that I could write numerous blogs about. However, one of the episodes discussed code switching which resonated with me, not only as a woman, but a black woman.

Everyone code switches. We code switch between work and home, corporate spaces and communal spaces, and maybe even from one group of people and another group of people. Code switching requires constant awareness. You have to quickly assess where you are and who you are around to determine the type of person you need to be. People in the black community are far too fond of code switching. We learn early as a culture to abandon our true authentic selves to blend in with Mainstream White America. Why? Because we are taught to change the way we talk based on who we are talking to. We are taught that the way we traditionally speak amongst each other is deemed unacceptable. We must speak with perfect intonation and articulation when we are making important phone calls, going to interviews, attending business meetings, etc.

Black women, in my opinion, are code switchers on an even greater scheme. We have to fall in line and make ourselves smaller or less intimidating. We have to oppress who we are to be seen as a submissive woman. We cannot be looked at as the aggressive black woman by White America or a potential husband. Black women code switch around men way too often to come across as perfect wifey material.

I think code switching is something that should brought to the forefront and discussed more, which is why I had to type this blog! I hope this resonated with you and you enjoyed reading 🙂