Why Men Play It Cool

Back to my series from the book “Why Men Love B******”

Men often try to play it cool because they feel like they have to with women. There are 10 different reasons men have given as to why they play it cool with women.

1. Some men want women to think they have options. They think it makes them more attractive.
2. Some men play it cool because they want to make their girlfriend a little insecure so she stays with him instead of seeking other men.
3. Some men play it cool because they do not want to feel like a woman has that much control over him. It is a blow to their egos.
4. Some men do not want to come off as too eager.
5. Society says men should not show emotion, so some men are just as emotional as women and play it cool until they feel comfortable to open up.
6. Some men play it cool as a way of having their guard up so they don’t get hurt.
7. So they do not look thirsty or desperate
8. So their sex drive don’t overpower them
9. Some women fall for the bad boy before the nice guy, so some men play it cool to appeal to them.
10. Some men think playing it cool displays his strength. He wants to be perceived as cool and not perceived as lame.

Ladies, in the beginning the only thing you need to pay attention to is whether he keeps coming around because he will only be able to suspend/hide his feelings for so long. (Attraction Principle #68)