We all know about the “Hoe Phase” and we all, most likely, have had one. However, each person’s hoe phase is different. There are different ends of the spectrum. On one end it may mean you just talked to multiple people at one time and on the other end maybe you slept with multiple people in a short time frame. But, at the end of the day, your hoe phase is no one else’s business.
A hoe phase could be looked at as a mindset. It could be a moment after a hard break up. It could be a moment after having a baby. It could even be during a relationship when you have lost the spark with your partner and are looking for a rush.
Benefits of a Hoe Phase
- Can learn to communicate what you like without being judged
- Can explore who all is available without any regrets
- Can learn what you like and dislike in a relationship
Tips during a Hoe Phase
- If a person tells you that they are not ready for a relationship…BELIEVE THEM!
- If it is meant to be a hoe phase, then DO NOT act like it is a relationship!
- No feelings attached!
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