Our past unresolved feelings periodically resurface when we are upset. When we are upset, about 90% of the upset is related to our past and has nothing to do with what we think is upsetting us. Generally, only 10% of our upset is appropriate to the present experience. When a man’s past comes up, heContinue reading “The 90/10 Principle”
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10 Common Complaints
To fully express their feelings, women assume poetic license and use various superlatives, metaphors, and generalizations. Men mistakenly take these expressions literally. Below is a list of common complaints ,often times, heard by women that men easily misinterpret. Women: “We never go out.” Men: “That’s not true. We went out last week.” Actual Meaning:Continue reading “10 Common Complaints”
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