Back to my series from the book “Why Men Love B******” Men often try to play it cool because they feel like they have to with women. There are 10 different reasons men have given as to why they play it cool with women. Some men want women to think they have options. They thinkContinue reading “Why Men Play It Cool”
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Jumping Through Hoops Like a Circus Poodle
Basic B**** 101 | Attraction Principles 49, 50, and 51 She may be trying too hard to impress him. She may be trying too hard to win him over. She may be trying too hard to be sexy. A man notices a “try hard” from the very first conversation. You should never try too hardContinue reading “Jumping Through Hoops Like a Circus Poodle”
Spontaneity in Men
Guarding yourself from those last minute dates and last minute calls when he has nothing better to do. While reading the book “Why Men Love B******” by Sherry Argov, one of her attraction principles stated “A man knows which woman will give in to last minute requests.” She created a chart to distinguish between whenContinue reading “Spontaneity in Men”
The New and Improved
10 Keypoints to Being the Dreamgirl The dreamgirl is the woman who is polite, but clear. She communicates directly. She knows what she likes and usually gets what she wants. Here are 10 characteristics that define “The Dreamgirl”. She maintains her independence. She does not pursue him. She is mysterious. She leaves him wanting. SheContinue reading “The New and Improved”
So Many Beautiful Women, But Where Are The Decent Men?
Author Jon Birger was curious to find the answer to this question and completed some research. Below is a summary of his findings. There is a gender ratio. Mr. Birger did numbers of males vs. females on different college campuses, but wherever you may be located, just think about the gender ratio. There is, typically,Continue reading “So Many Beautiful Women, But Where Are The Decent Men?”
Double Standards
Below is a list of double standards I would like to discuss that we, as people, need to change. Cheating In my previous post I discussed how we (this generation) have normalized cheating. If a man cheats on his significant other, it is not a big deal because that is what is expected and accepted.Continue reading “Double Standards”
Wrong Time, Right Person
Since this past Saturday I have been hearing the cliche “wrong time, right person” or “right person, wrong time” and it has been sitting heavy on my heart because I was a firm believer in this. There were a couple of men I would tell they were the right person, but it just always seemedContinue reading “Wrong Time, Right Person”
The 90/10 Principle
Our past unresolved feelings periodically resurface when we are upset. When we are upset, about 90% of the upset is related to our past and has nothing to do with what we think is upsetting us. Generally, only 10% of our upset is appropriate to the present experience. When a man’s past comes up, heContinue reading “The 90/10 Principle”
The Love Letter Technique
There are times when a surge of different emotions come over your body and you are not able to communicate at that very moment. There are times when talking just does not work. Satisfyingly, there is an alternative. Write a letter! Writing down your thoughts and feelings allows you to be aware of how unlovingContinue reading “The Love Letter Technique”
5 Reasons a Man Stops Giving
Women often times complain about their partner being loving in the beginning of the relationship, but then gradually becomes passive. Below are list of five major reasons a man stops giving that Dr. John Gray addresses in his book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Men idealize fairness. A man thinks because heContinue reading “5 Reasons a Man Stops Giving”
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