Unconditional love is a beautiful thing! Just be sure to give it AFTER your conditions have been met! Whether you have terms and conditions indicates whether you have options.
A quality man does not want a woman he can walk all over. Same as a quality woman does not want a man she can walk all over. There is nothing wrong with having self-respect…and a few conditions.
As we continue on this journey to becoming a “dream girl”, there are 3 conditions I would like to share that I believe every woman (and man) should have when it comes to dating.
Condition #1 – He/She books in advance.
The message? Your time and attention are valuable. If you treat yourself as a valuable commodity, then they will naturally react to that.
Condition #2 – Do not see him/her when you are “running on empty”.
The message? He/She does not come before basic necessities (i.e., rest). If they would like to do something past your bedtime, then politely reschedule. If you are not in a good mental space or just not in the mood that day, then they should understand that and be kind enough to reschedule.
Condition #3 – If you are not having fun or he/she is not good company, end the date and give an explanation as to why.
The message? You have a standard of how you expect to be treated. Hold your own and stand firmly in how you feel.
Having terms and conditions just sets the tone for the relationship. It establishes the dynamic between the two people involved.
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