Men like to feel desired and doesn’t like to question his manhood, so below are the top male views on how to keep that “spark” in a relationship.
- Hearing compliments as feedback to know their wife/girlfriend still finds them desirable.
- Surprise him with something. The element of surprise is a turn on.
- Still make time for each other after a long day of work.
- Deep conversations. One-on-one. No distractions.
- Don’t make him ask for sex.
- Spend time apart. It is important to do things alone or without your partner.
- Express interests in what he likes.
- Always throw a curveball here and there to keep him on his toes, so nothing becomes like a routine.
There are some things men find to be a turn off that may be obvious to some and shocking to others. The top male turn offs are listed below.
- Use the bathroom in private and keep the feminine products out of sight.
- A woman that is too materialistic
- Jealousy
- Leave some things as a mystery. Being too much of an open book can be a turn off.
- Irresponsible. No job. No credit.
- Crazy ex
- Applies too much pressure
- Being sloppy drunk in public
- Being desperate/thirsty
- Acting like his mom
*Information gathered from Why Men Love B****** by
Love 101 