Ever had the thought cross your mind that maybe you are the problem? Maybe you are. I know it sounds harsh, but it is real. Let’s talk about things that may make you undateable. Bad Dating History Dating many people can be a positive and a negative. It is great to explore your options andContinueContinue reading “Are You Undateable?”
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Daily Deeps
At the start of my relationship with my fiancé, I used to ask a lot of “off the wall” questions and think of random scenario questions. So much so that my fiancé, who was a guy I was just casually talking to at the time and getting to know, named these conversations “daily deeps”. IContinueContinue reading “Daily Deeps”
Weaponized Incompetence
Also known as strategic incompetence, weaponized incompetence refers to a situation wherein a person pretends to be bad at doing something in order to get out of doing certain tasks. It can pertain to any task at all but usually manifests itself in home life settings, like care tasks, leading to domestic inequalities.Modern Intimacy Weaponized incompetenceContinueContinue reading “Weaponized Incompetence”
The New and Improved
We have reached the last blog of the “Why Men Love B******” series 😦 If you have been reading my blogs weekly and been on the journey of becoming a new and improved b****, then you know being a b**** is not a bad thing. She is not someone who is abrasive. She is notContinueContinue reading “The New and Improved”
How to Regain that “Spark”
“One of the things about equality is not that you be treated equally to a man, but that you treat yourself equally to the way you treat a man.”Marlo Thomas Below I am going to list 3 steps to follow in order to regain that spark in your relationship. Instead of asking him to focusContinueContinue reading “How to Regain that “Spark””
Keeping Your Pink Slip
Alexa, play “Independent” by Webbie featuring Lil Boosie and Lil Phat! Keeping your pink slip, basically, means to be able to hold your own without depending on your man. If you can take care of yourself, then everything he gives you becomes gravy because he isn’t the whole mashed potatoes. If you get what IContinueContinue reading “Keeping Your Pink Slip”
Men Love Feisty Women
Don’t get me wrong, men like nice women, but not so nice to the point they can be walked over. I have listed 7 reasons below as to why men love feisty women. “Why Men Love B******” lists more, so take a look at the book if you would like to dive a bit deeper.ContinueContinue reading “Men Love Feisty Women”
Turn Ons/Turn Offs (for women)
Last week’s blog addressed some turn ons/turn offs for men based on the “Why Men Love B******” book, so this week I decided to come up with a list for women. As a woman I have my own turn ons/turn offs on the list, but I also took a poll on social media to getContinueContinue reading “Turn Ons/Turn Offs (for women)”
Turn On/Turn Off
Men like to feel desired and doesn’t like to question his manhood, so below are the top male views on how to keep that “spark” in a relationship. Hearing compliments as feedback to know their wife/girlfriend still finds them desirable.Surprise him with something. The element of surprise is a turn on.Still make time for eachContinueContinue reading “Turn On/Turn Off”
Progression to Romantic Relationships
Blog #2 of the Relationship Goals series based on the book written by Michael Todd Singleness > Dating > Engagement > Marriage > Love > Children Singleness is the most important season. During this season God reveals to you who you truly are. All of the aspects listed below becomes more clear to you duringContinueContinue reading “Progression to Romantic Relationships”
