At the start of my relationship with my fiancé, I used to ask a lot of “off the wall” questions and think of random scenario questions. So much so that my fiancé, who was a guy I was just casually talking to at the time and getting to know, named these conversations “daily deeps”. I love getting deep with people and this allowed our connection to blossom, which led us to committing and now being engaged!
So, get to know someone before committing to them. Get to know their values, vision (short term and long term), lifestyle, daily routines, past, and present. Know what makes them happy, sad, and mad. Know their temptations and wildest dreams. Know their fears and hesitations. Literally any and every thing that you can think of!
While getting to know someone, assess yourself as well to see if you are in alignment. Self assess and foresee a future with this person to know whether a relationship is worth committing to. There is no certain time frame. No certain number of questions to ask. No cookie cutter plan to go by when getting to know someone. However, it should be genuine, authentic, and come easily/naturally.
Tip: Accept the person for who they really are. Not the idea of them or the potential they may have. They should already meet your expectations and standards!
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