A man thinks he scores high with a woman when he does something very big for her like buying her something expensive or taking her on a vacation. He assumes he scores less when he does something small like opening car doors, buying her flowers, or giving her hugs and kisses. This formula, however, doesContinue reading “Ways to Score Points with a Woman”
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How to Listen Without Getting Angry
Men and women often times become angry with one another while communicating because they tend to forget that they communicate differently. Below are some suggestions about what to do to prevent getting angry while communicating with your partner. Remember anger comes from not understanding their point of view, and this is not their fault. TakeContinue reading “How to Listen Without Getting Angry”
12 Kinds of Love
Below is a list of 6 different kinds of love a woman and man needs with explanations of each. She needs… Caring When a man shows interest in a woman’s feelings and concern for her well-being, she feels loved and cared for. He fulfills her first primary need, which causes her to begin to trustContinue reading “12 Kinds of Love”
Supporting vs. Obstructing Intimacy Cycles
In previous posts, I have discussed how men are like rubber bands and women are like waves. In this post I will explain how you may support your partner’s intimacy cycle and how you may obstruct your partner’s intimacy cycle. Supporting Men and Women Ladies!!! Fellas!!! Whether we would like to admit it or not,Continue reading “Supporting vs. Obstructing Intimacy Cycles”
Women Are Like Waves
In the book, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, Dr. John Gray uses the metaphor women are like waves to discuss their intimacy cycle. She rises and falls in a wave-like motion. When she is feeling really good, she will reach a peak, but then her mood may change and her wave crashesContinue reading “Women Are Like Waves”
Men Are Like Rubber Bands
In the book, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, Dr. John Gray used the metaphor “men are like rubber bands” to help better understand a man’s intimacy cycle. A man needs time apart from his partner to fulfill his need for independence and autonomy. He automatically alternates between the two and may notContinue reading “Men Are Like Rubber Bands”
How Men View Sex vs How Women View Sex
Let’s talk about sex, baby! (Salt-N-Pepa reference) Sex is ultimately a longing, a passion, a deep desire for connection. Thomas Aquinas, writing in the 13th century, called its purposes offspring, fidelity, and sacrament. Offspring, of course, being the physical part of the relationship where the two beings become one. Fidelity is the relationship aspect whenContinue reading “How Men View Sex vs How Women View Sex”
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