At the start of my relationship with my fiancé, I used to ask a lot of “off the wall” questions and think of random scenario questions. So much so that my fiancé, who was a guy I was just casually talking to at the time and getting to know, named these conversations “daily deeps”. IContinue reading “Daily Deeps”
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How to Regain that “Spark”
“One of the things about equality is not that you be treated equally to a man, but that you treat yourself equally to the way you treat a man.” Marlo Thomas Below I am going to list 3 steps to follow in order to regain that spark in your relationship. Instead of asking him toContinue reading “How to Regain that “Spark””
Turn On/Turn Off
Men like to feel desired and doesn’t like to question his manhood, so below are the top male views on how to keep that “spark” in a relationship. Hearing compliments as feedback to know their wife/girlfriend still finds them desirable. Surprise him with something. The element of surprise is a turn on. Still make timeContinue reading “Turn On/Turn Off”
Intimacy
Intimacy is, basically, a connection. It starts with self before it can be experienced with another human. You must be able to feel…feel emotions, warning signs, and attractions. You cannot set a boundary if you are not aware of what is happening. You must be able to feel. If you are single, determine what youContinue reading “Intimacy”
When Both Partners Are Down
Lately I have been talking about intimacy cycles. If you have been reading my blogs, then I’m sure you guys are wondering what happens if you both are at your low point and can’t support the other. Well, here are 3 steps for supporting each other when you, also, need to pull away. Accept YourContinue reading “When Both Partners Are Down”
Supporting vs. Obstructing Intimacy Cycles
In previous posts, I have discussed how men are like rubber bands and women are like waves. In this post I will explain how you may support your partner’s intimacy cycle and how you may obstruct your partner’s intimacy cycle. Supporting Men and Women Ladies!!! Fellas!!! Whether we would like to admit it or not,Continue reading “Supporting vs. Obstructing Intimacy Cycles”
“Pursuer” or “Distancer”
Depending on whether you are a pursuer or distancer usually depends on your upbringing. The attachment theory gives background on why you may be one of the two. Secure Avoidant Anxious Securely attached people generally had a healthy childhood and are better at approaching intimate relationships. Avoidant people find intimacy more of a struggle, oftenContinue reading ““Pursuer” or “Distancer””
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