Author Jon Birger was curious to find the answer to this question and completed some research. Below is a summary of his findings. There is a gender ratio. Mr. Birger did numbers of males vs. females on different college campuses, but wherever you may be located, just think about the gender ratio. There is, typically,Continue reading “So Many Beautiful Women, But Where Are The Decent Men?”
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Double Standards
Below is a list of double standards I would like to discuss that we, as people, need to change. Cheating In my previous post I discussed how we (this generation) have normalized cheating. If a man cheats on his significant other, it is not a big deal because that is what is expected and accepted.Continue reading “Double Standards”
Wrong Time, Right Person
Since this past Saturday I have been hearing the cliche “wrong time, right person” or “right person, wrong time” and it has been sitting heavy on my heart because I was a firm believer in this. There were a couple of men I would tell they were the right person, but it just always seemedContinue reading “Wrong Time, Right Person”
The 90/10 Principle
Our past unresolved feelings periodically resurface when we are upset. When we are upset, about 90% of the upset is related to our past and has nothing to do with what we think is upsetting us. Generally, only 10% of our upset is appropriate to the present experience. When a man’s past comes up, heContinue reading “The 90/10 Principle”
The Love Letter Technique
There are times when a surge of different emotions come over your body and you are not able to communicate at that very moment. There are times when talking just does not work. Satisfyingly, there is an alternative. Write a letter! Writing down your thoughts and feelings allows you to be aware of how unlovingContinue reading “The Love Letter Technique”
5 Reasons a Man Stops Giving
Women often times complain about their partner being loving in the beginning of the relationship, but then gradually becomes passive. Below are list of five major reasons a man stops giving that Dr. John Gray addresses in his book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Men idealize fairness. A man thinks because heContinue reading “5 Reasons a Man Stops Giving”
Ways to Score Points with a Woman
A man thinks he scores high with a woman when he does something very big for her like buying her something expensive or taking her on a vacation. He assumes he scores less when he does something small like opening car doors, buying her flowers, or giving her hugs and kisses. This formula, however, doesContinue reading “Ways to Score Points with a Woman”
How to Listen Without Getting Angry
Men and women often times become angry with one another while communicating because they tend to forget that they communicate differently. Below are some suggestions about what to do to prevent getting angry while communicating with your partner. Remember anger comes from not understanding their point of view, and this is not their fault. TakeContinue reading “How to Listen Without Getting Angry”
12 Kinds of Love
Below is a list of 6 different kinds of love a woman and man needs with explanations of each. She needs… Caring When a man shows interest in a woman’s feelings and concern for her well-being, she feels loved and cared for. He fulfills her first primary need, which causes her to begin to trustContinue reading “12 Kinds of Love”
Supporting vs. Obstructing Intimacy Cycles
In previous posts, I have discussed how men are like rubber bands and women are like waves. In this post I will explain how you may support your partner’s intimacy cycle and how you may obstruct your partner’s intimacy cycle. Supporting Men and Women Ladies!!! Fellas!!! Whether we would like to admit it or not,Continue reading “Supporting vs. Obstructing Intimacy Cycles”
Love 101 